There are certain things which women find highly distasteful. So it makes sense if you are trying to succeed at positive dating and looking for female company to try and do things correctly. There are in fact fewer women than men registered with the online positive dating sites, so women are going to be in demand. Therefore give yourself an added advantage and learn and follow the unwritten rules of online positive dating.

Rudeness

Do not insult the reader of your profile by adding unnecessary comments such as ‘no time wasters’. Face it, anyone who has joined just to waste others time is only going to get more fired up after reading this comment and be more likely to target you. Ninety nine percent of the women reading your profile will not be time wasters. Also comments such as ‘no fat or ugly women’ are not going to get you any brownie points. This makes you sound offensive and rude, and will have the effect of making all women click away from your positive dating profile and onto another one.

Stick to the positive aspects of the ladies who you wish to make contact with instead. Always remember that these people are looking to find themselves friends just like you and they too may have had previous experiences which have dented their confidence. There is no harm to talking politely to women even if they are not your ideal dream date. Just by being nice to someone could make their day and it costs you very little.

Think Twice Before Boasting

There is a very fine line between describing your finer details and going over the top and showing off. No one likes people who boast and any boasting in your positive dating profile will immediately put women right off of you. Describing how you have the perfect body, the finest manners, greatest sex drive etc will come over as arrogant. Women have a lot of choice when it comes to choosing people to talk to, so ensure that you do not make any references to your sexual prowess, your good looks or your body. Allow them to make up their own minds, after all we all like and are looking for something different. So think twice before boasting.

Keep Past Relationships Quiet

Everyone has a past. However the online positive dating site is not the place to talk about any past relationships either good ones or bad ones. Joining such a site shows the fact that you are ready to move on with your life and are trying to find new friends and begin new relationships. So there is nothing more off-putting than reading details of someone’s past romantic failures.

Your positive dating profile needs to be full of optimism and fun loving hopeful comments. This will emphasise the fact that you are ready to move onto the next chapter in your life. So keep to yourself all references about your break ups, how your ex treated you and just keep the conversations light and forward moving.

This article is contributed by Ana Smith from the HIVMatch Publishing Team. She works together with founders Richard and Nigel and writes dating/relationship articles. You can find more about Positive Dating and HIVMatch by visiting their website and Positive Dating Blog.



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